Martin Christopher Collett

1979 - 2007

Location	Exmouth
Age	28 years
Cause of Death	Suicide
Date of Birth	23/03/1979
Date of Death	03/06/2007
Visitors	2,794 since 02/07/2007
Creator	Kate Collett

'Weep not for me and sorrow take; just love my children for my sake'

Martin Collett lived in Exmouth, but was born in Cheltenham. He took his own life on 3rd June 2007 after a particularly bad period in his life. He was 28 years old and leaves his widow and 2 children. He was also greatly loved by his mum, dad, 2 sisters, 2 nephew, 2 nieces, uncles, aunties, friends and in laws on both sides of the family and also his step daughter Jasmine.

It’s a very hard thing, when a person has died, for those who are left behind to put into words what it is they feel.

But here are some things, some words, that have been shared with me about Martin, that I now share with you – some thoughts and memories of the person Martin has been:

Martin was a kind, a genuine, a compassionate and helpful person who would do anything for anyone.

He was a wonderful father, being at the birth of Jordan and Tristan, his two children, who he loved very much.

He’d often buy presents for them, like train sets, (though often he’d enjoy playing with the things he’d bought them just about as much as they did. There was always, in the best sort of way, something of the ‘big kid’ about him – a child at heart).

He was full of life, full of energy, full of excitement, scampering about as the nickname ‘Scamp’ tells you. He couldn’t sit still for 5 minutes, and was always in a hurry, dashing about from A to B. When he had something to tell you… it could be difficult to keep up!

He was quite a character, quite a joker, a comedian, and had a great sense of humour. Annoying as his laugh might be found,… you couldn't help but join in.

He worked for years as a maintenance worker in a care home with his accomplice, Terry. Several stories could be told, including Martin managing somehow to stick electrical wire in his eye, setting alarms off and claiming it was a test, and teaching staff how to clean up after his and Terry’s maintenance endeavours, all of which earned him their nickname ‘Bodgit and Scarper’!

His adventures with DIY also continued at home. One of his projects was to wire the bathroom. He did such a ‘good’ job that when you put the bathroom light on… the TV in the front room would go off!

A great deal more could be said about Martin.

He was a very lovable character, loved by a lot of people, who’s left a big whole in the lives of those who knew him. He will be sadly missed.

Martin was my husband and friend. We had our ups and downs but he meant the world to me and now he has gone there is a big hole in my life that i don't know how to fill. I miss you Scamp so much you were my everything if you'd only realised it.

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You are my friend...And I hope you know that’s true...no matter what happens... I will stand by you... I will be there for you... when ever u need me... to lend a hand.... to do a good deed...so call on me....when ever you need me... I will always be there...Even to the bitter end...Send this promise to all your friends to show your friendship and watch who sends it back to you.
Christopher
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I MET YOU AS A STRANGER
I TOOK YOU AS A FRIEND.
I HOPE WE MEET IN HEAVEN
WHERE FRIENDSHIP NEVER ENDS.

Angela (Christopher-John Rowe) Mum

Marie-Angela Rowe September 22, 2008

thinking of you dear Kate, love sheila

The Four Candles
Author Unknown
Sep 6 2008

The Four Candles burned slowly. Their Ambiance was so soft you could
hear them speak...

The first candle said, "I Am Peace, but these days, nobody wants to
keep me lit."

Then Peace's flame slowly diminishes and goes out completely.

The second candle says, " I Am Faith, but these days, I am no longer
indispensable. "

Then Faith's flame slowly diminishes and goes out completely.

Sadly the third candle spoke, "I Am Love and I haven't the strength to
stay lit any longer." "People put me aside and don't understand my
importance. They even forget to love those who are nearest to them."

And waiting no longer, Love goes out completely.

Suddenly...

A child enters the room and sees the three candles no longer burning.

The child begins to cry, "Why are you not burning? You are supposed to
stay lit until the end."

Then the Fourth Candle spoke gently to the little boy, "Don't be
afraid, for I Am Hope, and while I still burn, we can re-light the
other candles."

With Shining eyes the child took the Candle of Hope and lit the other
three candles.

Never let the Flame of Hope go out of your life.

With Hope, no matter how bad things look and are...Peace, Faith and
Love can Shine Brightly in our lives.

Sheila Mum to Ian and wife of Trev (Close Friend)
September 20, 2008

to martin and loving wife kate.

afternoon martin hun,sorry no candles 4 a while lifes been so hectic and this years flying by.you and kate have been in my thoughts even though i have not been on site.xxxx hi kate hun,hope your ok.thinking about you.xxxx love caz.

Carolyn Sister To Stuart (Friend) September 13, 2008

A grieving mom

(((Kate))) I am so sorry for the loss of you husband Martin. Suicide is an illness that takes our loved ones away from us. You are in my prayers and close to my heart. Blessed Be

Rea Mom Of Emile (Visitor to site)
August 17, 2008

I am missing you so much. I wish you were here with me and things could be just like they used to be. I am so sorry for everything and just wish I could hold you. I love you so so much. You are always in my heart. I can't believe its our wedding anniversary next week. A year since I scattered your ashes. Sweet dreams angel xxxxxxx

Kate Collett (Wife)
July 12, 2008

This is for the family...x...x

We're a family who misses you
And finds time long since you went.
We think of you daily and hourly
But try to be brave and content
The tears that we shed are in silence
And we breathe a sigh of regret
For you are ours, and we remember
Though all the world forget.

Sorry I haven't been able to be on GTS for a while. Leading up to Kits 25th birthday celebrations felled me as you know. I feel a little stronger at the moment...so I'm back.
Thank you for your support and friendship Kate. I really appreciate you my friend. Bless you x Love Deb xx

Deborah Darwood (Friend)
July 10, 2008

I got down on my knees today,
And said a prayer for you,
For you are always in my heart,
And I often think of you,

I asked the Lord to send his angels,
To protect my dearest friend,
I prayed that all the joy and happiness,
You have will never end,

I asked the Lord to comfort you,
When you are feeling blue,
And when you have a tear,
He'll wipe away that too,

I asked the Lord to bless our friendship,
So our ways will never part,
For true friends always stick together,
For we're in each others hearts.

Barbara Richard Littles Mum (Friend)
June 22, 2008

♥ We have loved you forever ♥

Do not search for us...we will find you.
Do not wait for us...we are here already.
Do not whisper your name...we know it well.
We have loved you forever and time will tell...
WE ARE YOUR GUARDIAN ANGELS...

Feel your Angel's presence near xx

Deborah Darwood (Friend)
June 16, 2008

Happy Fathers Day. The boys miss you. Tristan has made you a gorgeous card and he wants me to put it in your black book. Both wanted to buy you chocolate! Please watch over them. Jordan is struggling at school and the teachers are worried about how he is coping with everything as he doesn't talk about it much. He is hurt that you died the day before his birthday and I think he feels guilty. I know you didn't do it on purpose but they need you. Tristan is playing up and thats his way of coping. I still love you xxx

Kate Collett (Wife)
June 15, 2008

i understand

hi my name is norah i understand the pain that you are feeling my brother took his life on the 3rd dec 2007 it is hard we have got a open book with no ending i hope robert has meet martin they had the same nature robert was a karoke presenter great singer he will be singing up in heaven they are free from pain and sadness take cae sending all my love to you all just think of all the good times xxxxx

Norah (Friend) June 3, 2008

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